Here are some natural way to make and maintain your hair soft and silky.
Hot oil Massage - Treatment to make your hair soft and reduce hair fall
Hot oil massage is the most sought method to make your hair soft and to reduce hair fall. Take equal amount of coconut oil and olive oil. Heat the oil. Add 6 peppers in the hot oil. When the pepper start cracking, switch off the stove. Wait until the heat is tolerable by you. Then dip a cotton in the oil and massage the oil on the scalp with the cotton. Apply liberally on the scalp. Massage with your finger tips. Wrap a towel on the head covering the hair. This will give heat to the hair and will help the hair to absorb more oil and hence moisturising the hair. Leave it on for 2 hours. Then wash your hair. This will give you a smooth and silky hair.
Curd and Fenugreek (vendhayam) for hair care
One more well known method is using curd and fenugreek seeds(vendhayam) . Soak fenugreek seed in curd at night. Let it be soaked for the whole night. In the morning grind the fenugreek seeds along with the curd. Make it into fine paste. Apply this paste on the scalp and hair. This paste will be sticky because of fenugreek. Fenugreek and curd will give softness to the hair. Leave it for 30 minutes. Then wash your hair with shampoo. Wash it thoroughly to remove the fenugreek fully. This method not only gives a soft and silkiness for your hair but is also a good antidandruff treatment for the hair.
Hibiscus Leaves (sembaruti leaves) - get soft and silky hair
Hibscus(sembaruti) leaves are the ancient method to make the hair of women soft and silky. Take the leaves of hibiscus (15 - 20 leaves if the leaves are big). Using little waterm grind the leaves to make it to a fine paste. Apply this paste on the scalp and to the full length of the hair. Let this be on hair for 30 minutes. Then wash your hair with shikakai powder or shampoo. Dry with a soft towel. You can see immediate result when trying this method. You can feel the softness in your hair, when the hair is fully dry. It is also believed that this natural method will improve hair growth.
Coconut milk with Lime - Hair Care
Coconut oil is always one of the key ingredients in hair care. Coconut milk also has the same importance in hair care. Blend grated coconut in a mixer. Extract thick coconut milk. Take 1 tablespoon of lime juice. Add the lime juice to the coconut milk. Leave this mixture for 10 minutes, so that both will get mixed well. Then apply this liquid on the scalp and hair. This can be left on hair for 30 minutes before washing with regular shampoo. Lime is a coolant, so those having cold or fever or sinus should be careful when using lime juice. Coconut milk and lime will give a glossy and silky effect for the hair naturally.
Egg with oil
Egg is a natural hair care product. Egg is used to repair dry and dull hair. Beat 2 egss until it froths. Then add a table spoon of coconut oil or olive oil to it. Again beat it, so that the oil and the egg blends together. If needed, you can add a tablespoon of curd to this and blend it together. Apply this mixture on the scalp and hair. Leave it on the hair for 1 hour. Then wash it normally with the regular shampoo. This egg and oil treatment gives you bouncing hair.
a good and safe way for silky and straight hairs would be mehendi with curd.
But the mehendi must be the natural one not that which are sold in packets.
Actually the mehandi in those packets have some colour in them which is not good for silky hairs.
What you need to do is take the mehandi leaves and grind it &then mix the curd in it and apply it on your hairs.
you will see some difference.
do this every weak.
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